07/06/2021
Did you “fall off your diet this weekend”? If so, here’s a reminder: you did not “fall of” or “fail” the diet, the diet failed YOU! If a way of eating (the true definition of the word diet) is not adequate, sustainable, realistic AND enjoyable - it is not going to last!
So maybe you’ve heard this before and know that unsustainable diets don’t work and cause harm, but you’re still having trouble wrapping your head around how to fully reject the diet mentality.
First, give yourself some grace and compassion. Diet messages are everywhere and many of the individuals I work with remember being negatively influenced by such messages before the age of 11. This means many of us (you are certainly not alone!) have decades of unlearning to do. This takes time and does not happen overnight.
Start by reflecting on your own experience with dieting (for most it works…until it doesn’t😑)..and consider learning more about the harm dieting can cause (such as disordered eating, weight cycling, decreased metabolism, food preoccupation etc).
Next, free up your mental space and get rid of tools such as the scale, calorie-counting apps, and diet books. This can help immensely and allow you to reconnect with your internal cues versus external ones which have led you astray and further disconnected you from your body.
People eat food for many reasons besides nutrition. Psychological satisfaction is equally important. When you ignore or neglect this by practicing what feels like “self-control,” you become more unsatisfied. This mindset can lead a person to have more cravings.
Last, consider exploring the intuitive eating framework (books and podcasts can be a great place to start — if you need recs feel free to DM me!). If you find yourself needing additional support consider working with an anti-diet dietitian who specializes in intuitive eating.
Last, recognize that you are so much more than a body! Consider your values and what makes you unique. All human beings deserve health, happiness and respect no matter their size or body shape.