03/11/2024
When you lose something of value to you and you strongly desire to have it back, you may feel very angry at first.
I found that in situations like this, it helps so much when you first use your anger to claim that thing you lost as yours by divine right!
Demand from the Universe that that thing or the equivalent of it be returned to you under grace, in ways that are just right for you and everyone else involved, and at the perfect time.
Additionally, it is important to remember to add that you want that or something of the same or greater value to you be given to you in place of that thing, if that thing you lost actually cannot be returned to you.
That is HOW to ASK!
Then, be willing to be willing to unconditionally love, honor and accept yourself for whatever you did that caused you to have lost that person, place or thing so that the happy parts of yourself can create harmony with the frightened parts of yourself.
Then, cast all your worry, doubt, fear, anxiety, sadness or other negative emotion on the Christ within and release that thought of you having to do something that is too much responsibility for you alone or perhaps seems too impossible for you to do alone and you give the whole situation to God.
When you give it to God, you must BELIEVE and TRUST that you are WORTHY of that experience even though it might seem impossible for you to have it.
Believing you are worthy and trusting that the ALMIGHTY God really is ALMIGHTY and CAN take care of manifesting that miracle FOR you without your help AND/OR the experience and expression of JOY in your life without your help is a very important step in the process of allowing your well-being and taking your hands off of trying to figure out HOW it is going to happen.
Then you will either find God CAN do it FOR you without you ever thinking about it or giving it much thought at all again.
Additionally, you may find that God may call upon you to be a team player. God may NEED your help with a certain PART of the process of manifesting that thing. You will not necessarily know whether or not God will need your help ahead of time, so it is your job then to pay attention and be self aware. Your self awareness keeps you safe.
If your Higher Self needs you to take some action to help God along the way, your Higher Self will call upon you by either giving you a clear sign or a definite lead or an unmistakable touch of grace (a sign that is so obvious you cannot DENY it is a sign).
Again, you will not have to DO anything necessarily but be aware of yourself (your inner world, your spiritual, intuitive, emotional, and physical guidance systems and your inspired thoughts) AND your environment AND ACT ON THOSE THINGS.
Additionally, when you give your prayer to God, all you need to do is let go of your attachment to the outcome and pay attention
In the end, It will always work out.
I have found that it's easier. It's gentler. It's as fun as can be to live life this way after losing something than it is to stay in judgement about it as being a bad thing.
I have found that it is much easier to be grateful and thankful to God instead because I have faith that something beautiful will come from it and in my joy, it has the opportunity to return to me faster.
The fact that it is gone, and I am not making a big deal out of it being gone and getting others to resist it being gone with me, is one of my biggest secrets to success when it comes to manifesting miracles and joy.
Seeing things as perfect the way they are instead of complaining about them being the way they are or fearing it the way it is, always prevents me and others from having to miss out on lots of joyful opportunities that God will surely send our way to comfort us and/or keep us happy and in good health in the meantime while it is working on returning or replacing the thing(s) we may have given up on ever having again or thought were gone forever.
Then as you release your prayer, you cannot just say, "Here God. I hate you for taking this away from me." You can have a bad attitude when you give it to God, but how would you feel if someone did that to you? Just because God is or is not a human in your belief systems, doesn't mean God does not have His/Her/Its own set of preferences for how he/she/it wants to be treated by you.
You have to say it with the joyful anticipation and enthusiasm of a child and feel that TRUST in God in your bones and say, "YES! I see it! I feel it! I know it! It's already done! I can RELAX now! Thank you, God! Thank you. Thank you. Thank you for returning to me or replacing all that which You and I and the Universe all agree are mine by divine right!
And thank you for helping us all get out of your way and/or learn what we need to learn from the experience in the meantime or opening our eyes to see if there is something I or we are doing that is preventing you from being able to do for me or us what I have asked or wake me up if I have fallen asleep to my dream and that is preventing myself from being able to accept it and/or allow myself to enjoy it if it is already here.
I also found it is easier to manifest it faster and safer and gentle and more beautifully and peacefully (harmlessly and defenselessly) for everyone involved if you ask for it to be returned or replaced under grace, in perfect ways, at the perfect pace and place and time for me and all others involved so it's not too much or too overwhelming for any of us and we can all relax in the process and take good care of ourselves (in other words, that it may happen in nurturing, cooperative, harmonious, confident, mostly happy, compassionately understanding and mutually beneficial ways with a focus on a win/win/win and the conscious choice to be happy with what I have now even if it isn't what I actually want and with a mind that is open to all the possibilities of what good might come from doing that, and thankfulness for what I have now and a heart then full of gratitude and wonder and joy for all the miracles and joy to that are to come for me and everyone else involved! (sorry about my run-on sentence there)
There is much love for me and for you and for everyone else here in my heart. May you be blessed by my sharing.
