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Life and Death With a Borderline A mountain of experience, I lived it. Help for Survivors/Victims of spouses with Borderline Personality Disorder

Think of it like this. Those of us who have been with a Borderline. It’s like you are sleeping/living/doing life with so...
07/04/2026

Think of it like this. Those of us who have been with a Borderline. It’s like you are sleeping/living/doing life with someone who has in their possession several deadly weapons. Not only do they brandish them often, but they threaten to use them on you often, and occasionally without warning they take a stab at you, wounding deeply. And as you are healing from that gaping wound, they convince you that it’s all your fault that you bled all over their carpet and made a huge mess. But before that wound heals, completely out of the blue and unexpected, you get stabbed again. And again. And again. And then tossed down a flight of stairs. And your Borderline tells others that you are the one that stabbed them. And that you are dangerous and crazy. And you sink into this existence where you know at any moment your life can end, while simultaneously becoming convinced by the borderline that you are causing this person to be so hateful.
It is like this with a Borderline. They will kill you slowly. Read some things about the effects of diabolical stress on the human body. Come to a place of understanding and realize that there is no documented account of ANY borderline relationship being successful. It is only a matter of two choices: when you will decide to leave, or when it is they will cause your early death. There is no other answer. Go to Randy Krieger’s chat rooms and talk with the elderly victims who are stuck with a Borderline because they waited too long to get out and they themselves are just waiting to die, no life or joy left in them at all.
RUN now, while you can.


07/04/2026

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Do not FOR ONE MINUTE think that your children will not be permanently damaged if raised in a home with a Borderline. M...
06/06/2023

Do not FOR ONE MINUTE think that your children will not be permanently damaged if raised in a home with a Borderline. Much like being handed over to a pe*****le, they have no security, they have no true love, they feel emotional abandonment, and they will be unable to regulate their emotions long into adulthood.

Much like a pe*****le, borderline personality disorder is incurable by most accounts. Treatable on extreme rare occasion...
05/09/2023

Much like a pe*****le, borderline personality disorder is incurable by most accounts. Treatable on extreme rare occasion but it is only temporary. Here’s a fun twist: I actually am aware of a pe*****le or two who, having immersed themselves in Christ and putting themselves under constant accountability, they have overcome their demons. But a Borderline in church, even active and participating, Faith has zero effect on their Behavior as they gleefully return to their madness the second they walk out the door of the church. Which lends to my theory that I do believe Borderline is not only mental and emotional, but quite possibly spiritual. I have seen the demon glare out from inside more times than I can count, morphed expressions, growling, out of body experiences that sometimes they don’t even seem to remember.

As I again approach the useless date of our wedding, still married to the borderline, she’s been gone 2 years, I’m remin...
05/09/2023

As I again approach the useless date of our wedding, still married to the borderline, she’s been gone 2 years, I’m reminded that I have no idea when it ever really ends.  Extortion. Accusation, chaos. Gold digging. Stealing from a life of hard work without a second thought. This week she hijacked my Airbnb account, rented a cabin for 2 in Branson showing her married name as the last name of the fireman she is dating. All of two months. I probably would’ve never known but she forgot to also hijack the email address and all her reservation confirmations came to me. She changed the email address at the end and I’m toying with changing it back. They are evil. They are psychopathic. They have no remorse or regret for any of the destruction they do to us.

It’s still amazing to me the hell we live until we get out. Like even though it’s been over a year, my reality is stil...
03/18/2023


It’s still amazing to me the hell we live until we get out. Like even though it’s been over a year, my reality is still skewed. Through conditioning, I got to a place where, it was like being on combat patrol watching over your shoulder for snipers. Walking into the house from work, I never knew which version of the borderline would be there. The cold shoulder? The sensual love bomb? The aloof and indifferent?  The evil bitch waiting to spring some Hollywood level fabrication of nonsense that was so ridiculous it would make a good Weird Al Yankovic music video? Randy Krieger calls it walking on eggshells. And you spend your entire miserable existence tiptoeing around the house, being always upbeat and positive while inside you are dying or dead already. The slow realization over the course of time that even if you weathered the storm for a few more years, there’s no future with a Borderline. There’s no borderline relationship that has ever survived, not one. They get sicker by the year and you age exponentially, three years for every one you live. And you start envisioning yourself at retirement age with this disgusting conniving manipulating excuse for a human, whom you once loved and gave your very best to, your heart and brain health not what it once was and you foresee that this woman actually has the capability to cause your early death. Four or five days of utter hell, and then one day, maybe two in a row if you are lucky, the fake wife, the hot and spunky girl you fell in love with, emerges. And everything is right in the world for a moment. If foolish enough to let your guard down and think it is real, that’s when the heavy damage occurs. Because you let your heart believe that she loves you and that she will now be sane and not maniacal ever again. And then yet another violent split that you never saw coming. Over something that never happened. And you sit alone in your office or the back bedroom and pretend to work or read or be well. But you are not well. You are dying one vulgar name-calling incident at a time. And you don’t even know why.

There is ever only one answer, fellow survivors: RUN.
This group and others will encourage you and love on you and hope for you and pray for you. But you will not survive life with a Borderline. There will be nothing left of you. Some of the damage you suffer will become irreversible, the longer you stay. 

 

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