10/22/2026
The birthday party was fun last weekend.
This weekend? The noise is too much.
They normally tolerate getting dressed just fine, but today the socks are suddenly a BIG problem.
They usually love playing with their siblings, but tonight every little sound or touch seems to set them off.
Sensory responses aren't always consistent—and that actually makes sense.
The nervous system isn't processing one sound, one texture or one movement in isolation. It's processing information from throughout the body and environment while also responding to things like sleep, hunger, illness, emotional stress, physical demands and unfamiliar situations.
I like to think about this as regulatory bandwidth.
When there's plenty available, a child may have more capacity to adapt to additional sensory information.
When they're already carrying a lot, the threshold may look very different.
It doesn't mean every difficult behavior is sensory.
But when a response seems bigger than expected, sometimes it's worth getting curious about what else might already be taking up bandwidth.
Same child. Different day. Different load.