02/17/2026
1. No chance I was uttering things like, āitās hard to find the love of your lifeā, āmen are intimidated by successful womenā, āguys donāt commit because ____ā, āmen only want one thingā
Think, but donāt say it out loud- when I wanted a relationship I thought I WASNāT successful.
I stopped all jobs to focus on hypnotherapy biz and had 0 $ ā āa real man wouldnāt want an amateurā was my rationale.
Once I started manifesting him I knew that āheā would love me for me and work through anything, like roles, with me.
When I was a match, he would show up. Period.
2. FULL STOP on writing any lists of what he looks like, had, his interests, family, if he wanted marriage or kids, goals ETC.
That will prolong it.
Instead I wrote the long list of what does a successful relationship look like TO ME?
Words create pictures in the brain. š§ Pictures create feelings. Feelings create your reality.
My list created a 5 second scene in my head of my relationship and when I thought of it, I could feel it.
The more I felt it, the more moments I knew I was in a relationship.
That compounded into him showing up after 7 months. š
3. TBH I said I was going to listen to my intuition and I did..
I picked out a bureau he might need
I made space in my closet
I updated my space knowing a guy was coming .. something he could enjoy as well.
I did the meditations and journaling, not every day but every week.
I said āthank youā while I felt the scene almost every morning and evening.
I made sure āheā was accounted for when planning the accommodations for my brotherās upcoming wedding.
Your intuition may be completely different than mine!
It gets stronger as you use it.
If you want my help with any of these, head to my link in bio! šš should be extremely helpful.
ANY woman can do this and be with a caliber man ā itās not an impossible task I can promise you that.
Love you, beautyš¤
