10/20/2026
I'm a psychiatrist. I took Xanax for about 6 months. I will never take it again.
It was a hard stretch. Work was crazy and we had a newborn at home. My sleep fell apart, and anyone who's had weeks of insomnia knows how demoralizing it is. It brings you to your knees.
Xanax felt like a miracle at first. Within 20 minutes I was calm and sleeping. Hardly any hangover. That's exactly what makes it a trap.
After about 6 months, it turned on me. I started having intrusive thoughts. Thankfully I recognized it was the drug, came off, and changed my lifestyle to fix my insomnia.
I've spent the last 6 years helping people come off sedatives. Here are the three reasons I tell people to be careful:
1. They're addictive, fast. I hear it every day: "I'm a straight-laced guy, I never even had problems with alcohol, and before I knew it I was hooked." One night becomes several nights a week, because the choice feels like: take the pill, or feel terrible for 16 hours tomorrow.
2. They wear off, and they're hard to stop. After about 2 months, many people find the dose isn't working anymore. Over a few years you can end up on a high dose that barely works. Your brain has adapted, so when you try to stop, you get withdrawal plus the original problem. The FDA now warns that protracted withdrawal symptoms can go on for a year or longer.
3. They can turn on you. It's sometimes called BIND: benzodiazepine-induced neurological dysfunction. More anxiety than before. Avoiding trips and social plans. Mood swings, irritability, constant tension, intrusive thoughts you never had. Some people get ringing in the ears, light sensitivity, tingling, memory problems and brain fog.
The worst part is that it often gets misdiagnosed as a new psychiatric condition, and people end up on more drugs.
If you're already on one of these and you want off, you're not weak and you're not alone. But please don't stop suddenly. Come off slowly with a prescriber, and work on non-drug ways to manage sleep and anxiety.
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