11/02/2026
Here’s something I wish more parents would think about when they’re on a weight loss journey.
Your kids are watching. And listening. To EVERYTHING.
They’re listening when you complain about your thighs, your belly, or the number on the scale. They’re watching when everyone else sits down to dinner and you’re drinking a shake because you’re “being good.”
They’re watching you celebrate losing 10 pounds as though you’ve just won the lottery. And they’re listening when you talk about how much happier you’ll be when you lose another 10.
And here’s the thing. Especially when they’re young, your kids think you’re pretty darn perfect. They love you exactly the way you are. So when a parent is constantly talking about needing to fix their body, what message does that send about THEIR bodies?
Kids are little sponges. Unfortunately, they don’t come with a filter that separates the good stuff from the stuff we’d rather they didn’t absorb. 😂
Now, don’t misunderstand me. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to lose weight, improve your health, get stronger, or have more energy. I’m a personal trainer, for goodness’ sake! Helping people make positive changes is what I do.
But there’s a difference between teaching your children to take care of their bodies and teaching them that their bodies are problems that need fixing. This isn’t just about daughters because our sons are paying attention, too.
What if, instead of celebrating pounds lost, we celebrated what our bodies can DO?
Getting stronger. Having more energy. Going for a hike. Lifting something heavy. Eating good food that nourishes us. Enjoying dinner together without labeling foods as “good” or “bad.”
You can absolutely work toward your own health goals without making weight loss the headline in your household.
Because long after your kids forget what you weighed, they’ll remember how you talked about your body.
And someday, that might become the way they talk about their own.
Give them something good to repeat.