10/01/2026
All throughout my second pregnancy, my midwife assured me that second babies come fast. Although I knew that was usually the case, I didnāt want to be attached to that expectation. So, I took her words with a grain of salt.
For about a week leading up to his birth, I had several days where I thought labor was starting, but each time, the contractions would fade away. Another day of waiting.
I went about a week past 40 weeks with all of my boys.
My first son was born after 27 hours of labor, and thatās what I was mentally prepared for again. A marathon, not a sprint. My oldest was also born just after 2 amā¦this time I thought, āWouldnāt it be cool to have a baby during the day? And then eat lunch? ;)ā
On the day my second son arrived, I woke right around 7am as usual, snuggling my 4-year-old. I was feeling mild contractions, just as I had the morning before, except this time they stayed.
We slowly started our day just like any other. Breakfast, followed by chores. My 4-year-old was in the kitchen with his dad while I tidied up the living room, quietly pausing for contractions that were steadily increasing in intensity.
Crawling around on the floor picking up toys, I stopped to lean my elbows on the couch, swaying and breathing deeply.
At some point, I excused myself and went to the bedroom to be alone. I was in my own little world. I monitored my dilation and nonchalantly fielded several calls with my midwife. Each time she checked in with me, I totally downplayed how intense the contractions were getting. I truly thought I had a long ways to go and she didnāt need to come yet.
I headed to the shower, swaying my hips under the water and letting out many horse-lipped exhales, just letting my body melt.
I eventually found myself kinda camped out on the toilet. I hung out there for quite a while, with my 4-year-old popping in and out, holding my hand and encouraging me.
There was no more hiding the intensity of the contractions. Each one brought loud moans as my baby descended further.
Finally, when I felt again, I was surprised to feel his head!
I yelled to my husband to quickly call the midwifeā¦
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