10/12/2026
Weak vs. Tight. Which one are you?
Leaking when you sneeze, jump, or laugh? Most people assume the pelvic floor is weak and start doing Kegels.
But a tight (overactive) pelvic floor can cause many of the same symptoms.
A muscle that’s always “on” gets tired and can’t respond quickly when it needs to. It’s like making a fist all day: when you finally need to grip something, there’s not much left.
Signs your pelvic floor may be WEAK:
Leaking with coughing, sneezing, or exercise
Heaviness or pressure in the pelvis
Difficulty holding gas
Urge incontinence
Signs your pelvic floor may be TIGHT:
Leaking or urgency, even with “strong” muscles
Pain with s*x, tampons, or exams
Constipation or straining
Hip, low back, or tailbone pain
Trouble starting your urine stream or fully emptying
Pelvic Pain
Many people have a mix of both, which is why guessing doesn’t work. A tight pelvic floor often needs to relax and lengthen before strengthening helps. Sometimes you might have weakness elsewhere contributing to a pelvic floor that is too "tight."
Everyone's body is different and everyone needs something unique that will work for them, not a one size fits all treatment.