Medium Beth

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Medium Beth Hi, friends!! My name is Beth. I am an Evidential Medium. I am grateful and honored to facilitate this sacred communication. Ethical. Evidential. Thank you! Beth

Owner: Aethera Coaching LLC | Stillwater Mercantile
Central CT Evidential Medium/Psychic•Consultant
Teacher•Trance Practitioner•Spiritual Counseling
Immersive Spiritual Coaching•Gallery & Group Readings
Events•Home Assessments•Paranormal Investigations I feel so blessed to be able to work in service to spirit to bring through evidence and essence of your loved ones so you feel like you are sitting in their presence. Mediumship
I created this tagline strategically. There are so many unprofessional and unethical mediums opening up shop who fail to meet basic standards of ethics that I not only thought it was important to create a tagline I could proudly stand behind, but I wanted to subtly alert those looking for readings to the fact that I am an ethical medium, that I list it right below my name so the two will always be synonymous. In fact, I believe in ethics in mediumship so deeply that I wrote the original guidelines for ethics and responsibilities in mediumship. I want my clients to understand the reverence I have for my work with regard to my responsibility to both the client and the spirit communicator. As a teacher and a leader in the mediumship community, I also disseminate these guidelines to others so they will also have a strong foundation in ethics. ABOUT ME
In my life outside of mediumship, I am a busy mom of three teenage boys and live in Connecticut (from Georgia). I work in operations management for a small biotech company in New York City, but work mostly from home since Covid began. I have a BA in Communications and am completing my MS in Public Relations. I am a prolific writer and family historian/genealogist. I have been running practice circles in evidential mediumship for 5+ years, taught development circles for all levels of mediums, and I teach a many mediumship courses. Other interests in the spiritual and psychic field include: Controlled Remote Viewing, Associative Remote Viewing, trance healing/meditation/speaking/evidential, hands-on healing, astral projection, hemi-sync, and heart-brain coherence, spiritual assessments, home assessments. Outside of my spiritual work, I am a writer and post poems, stories, and essays to my blog and Substack (Queen Rowdy). Other interests outside of spiritual work include: gardening, biking, working out, music, travel, family history, playing Zelda with my boys, planning class reunions, and I'm creating a writing course I can teach at local colleges. I grew up loving Casper the Friendly Ghost and Boo Berry was my favorite cereal! If you would like to book a reading, you may do so through my website (Book Service tab) or feel free to DM or email me if you cannot find a date/time that works for you and I'll find a way to work with you to get you on my schedule!! I look forward to meeting and reading for you!

What’s been on your heart lately? ✨ Take a little time for connection, reflection, and possibility with me this weekend....
10/23/2026

What’s been on your heart lately? ✨ Take a little time for connection, reflection, and possibility with me this weekend.

🍂 Saturday | Charming Creations, Plantsville
10–3 • Only 4 openings left!

🍂 Sunday | Southington Wellness Cooperative
11–3 • Openings available

20-minute readings • $60

Reserve your time: [email protected]
Crafty Becky

I’m sick of pretending these kinds of things don’t happen. And I’m tired of staying quiet about how hurtful they are.Som...
10/21/2026

I’m sick of pretending these kinds of things don’t happen. And I’m tired of staying quiet about how hurtful they are.

Someone I know well sent me this message. Someone who knows I am a medium. Someone who, I believe, genuinely thinks they are helping me. Saving my soul, perhaps.

But sending someone a passage describing what they do as “detestable” to God is not a harmless gesture simply because you introduce it with “I prayed for you.”

I am a person you know. Someone with feelings, convictions, a conscience, and a deeply sacred relationship with God. Please consider what it feels like to receive that.

You are entitled to your religious beliefs. You are entitled to disagree with mine. But your beliefs do not give you authority over my soul.

They do not make you more worthy of God’s love.

And they do not mean you understand my spiritual life better than I do.

What hurts is the assumption that I must be spiritually lost because my understanding differs from yours. That I haven’t reflected, questioned, prayed, or considered the responsibility of what I do. That if I really knew God, I would agree with you.

I have thought deeply about my beliefs. I live with them. I examine them. My work calls for that continued examination.

And I do not owe someone an education in mediumship when they have already condemned it and have no interest in listening.

There is a difference between asking, “Can you help me understand?” and announcing, “What you do is evil.”

One opens a conversation. The other delivers a verdict.

And yes, I have something to say about using the Bible this way. The Bible came to us through human beings who wrote, compiled, translated, and interpreted its texts. Believing those writings were divinely inspired does not make every person’s understanding of them identical to God’s own judgment.

You may accept the Bible as the final authority for your life. But quoting it to me does not settle a conversation about my soul, and it does not give you exclusive access to God.

I do not believe any church, institution, or individual owns that access. Prayer, stillness, contemplation, and a personal relationship with the sacred are available to us without someone standing between us and God.

Here is what I believe.

I believe our connection to God is inherent. I believe we are equally worthy of love and that the sacred exists within every one of us. I believe in a loving God who does not abandon creation over differences in religious belief.

I experience my connection to God and Christ consciousness through stillness, compassion, prayer, awareness, and service. That connection is deeply personal. It does not depend on someone else approving of it.

I also believe consciousness continues beyond physical death, and that mediumship can help people experience a connection with those they love. In my understanding, a medium facilitates that connection. We do not own it. We are not its gatekeepers, and we are not more divine than anyone else.

I would bet my life on the certainty that I am not communicating with demons. I do not share that fear-based groupthink belief system, and I will not accept it as a definition of my healing work or my relationship with God.

Over these years, I have watched my mediumship bring healing to people right in front of my eyes. I have witnessed what I can only describe as a spiritual wound beginning to heal through one word, one message, one memory. Sometimes a detail takes someone back to a particular day with their loved one, and suddenly there is recognition. There are tears, there is laughter, and there is love.

In those moments, I feel the sacred connection between myself, the person sitting in front of me, and their loved one in spirit. To me, these are moments of remembering the connection we all share, all the time.

People of different races, cultures, religions, ages, and identities have sat with me. Again and again, they have expressed their certainty that they recognized their loved one in what came through. These experiences are deeply meaningful to the people having them, and I will not dismiss that meaning simply because someone else’s beliefs have no room for it.

And I have to ask: what purpose would a demon serve by intervening to bring a grieving person comfort? Why offer a treasured memory, an acknowledgment of hurt, or words of love that help someone begin to find peace?

Why assume that a loving, meaningful message is evidence of something evil trying to deceive us? Why not consider the possibility that it is evidence of the survival of spirit—that someone we love continues to exist beyond physical death, and that our connection with them continues, too?

I understand that comfort alone does not establish the source of a message. But calling that comfort a deception does not establish its source either.

And I have questions for people who insist that is what I am doing.

When someone recognizes a specific memory, a familiar personality, or something meaningful that I had no ordinary way of knowing—and that experience brings comfort—why is your first conclusion that something evil must be responsible?

What makes that explanation more credible to you than the possibility that there is something here you do not yet understand?

Comfort alone does not prove where an experience comes from. But your fear of an experience does not establish its source, either.

You can ask thoughtful questions about mediumship. You can question evidence, ethics, and how a practitioner works. Those are worthwhile conversations. Calling me demonic does none of those things.

I know there are deeply compassionate religious people who would never treat me this way. This is about the harm of using religious certainty to place yourself above another person.

I cannot know the depth of someone else’s connection to God, and I will not pretend that I can. I am asking for that same humility in return.

You do not have to book a reading. You do not have to believe what I believe. You do not even have to understand my work.

But if you care about me, please stop approaching me as a soul you have been appointed to rescue. I believe the only one who can rescue any soul is God. That authority belongs to none of us.

Ask about my experience if you genuinely want to hear it. Respect my boundary if you don’t.

If someone chooses to label the compassion, healing, and peace I witness “demonic,” I reject that label. I intend to continue doing this work with care, integrity, and love. I have seen too much of what it means to people to let someone else’s fear decide its worth.

I am willing to have an honest conversation. I am no longer willing to make myself smaller so someone else can feel more righteous.

My relationship with God is not yours to invalidate.

With conviction and love,
Beth
Medium Beth

10/21/2026

💯!!! Do you agree?

10/20/2026

Yes! We are all made of Stardust, and when we stare into the night sky, we are simply looking in a mirror or longing for home.🌜🪐💫✨🌟🌙

10/20/2026

**Why Aethera Coaching?**

I chose the name **Aethera Coaching** for my business to express something central to my work: our lives have an inner dimension that deserves attention, understanding, and room to unfold.

The name draws from *aether*, an ancient word associated with the luminous upper air and the heavens. In spiritual language, aether can represent the subtle, unseen connection between the physical world and the realm of spirit—the mystery within which consciousness, inspiration, and spiritual connection are explored.

For me, it speaks to the relationship between our human experience and our spiritual nature.

We live through our bodies, thoughts, emotions, relationships, and responsibilities. We also encounter moments of profound knowing, meaningful connection, and stillness that invite us to look beyond our familiar understanding of ourselves. Aethera holds space for both: the practical realities of being human and the deeper questions that give our lives meaning.

**Aether and spirit communication**

Within the spiritual understanding that informs my work, aether offers a way of imagining connection beyond the boundaries of physical presence. It symbolizes an unseen meeting place between embodied awareness and spirit.

I use this as a spiritual framework, rather than a technical explanation of how mediumship works. It gives language to the experience of becoming still, turning our attention inward, and becoming receptive to impressions that may arrive as images, feelings, words, or a quiet sense of knowing.

In my approach to spirit communication, that receptivity belongs alongside discernment. We learn to recognize our own thoughts and emotions, receive and express what comes, and remain attentive to evidence. The mystery invites openness; the responsibility of the medium calls for care, honesty, and clarity.

Aether is meaningful here because it expresses the possibility that connection extends beyond what our physical senses can perceive—and that love and relationship may have a dimension beyond physical presence.

**Why the “Ae” matters**

Keeping the **Ae** in Aethera was a meaningful choice. It preserves the connection to *aether’s* classical spelling and its associations with brightness, spaciousness, and the heavens.

To me, those opening letters give the name a sense of antiquity and mystery. They carry the atmosphere of the word: luminous, expansive, and quietly sacred. The spelling itself becomes a small expression of the work.

When I describe “Ae” as the more aetheric expression, I mean that symbolically and aesthetically. It makes the name’s spiritual roots more visible. It reflects the quality I want Aethera to evoke: an invitation to pause, listen deeply, and become aware of what may be present beneath the surface of everyday life.

**Why coaching belongs beside it**

“Coaching” gives that expansive idea a practical purpose.

Spiritual insight matters in how we live: how we understand ourselves, respond to difficult emotions, establish boundaries, make decisions, and care for our bodies. An experience can feel profound, but integrating it takes reflection, compassion, and action.

Aethera Coaching brings these dimensions together. Spiritually, it invites connection and exploration. Mentally, it encourages perspective and clarity. Emotionally, it makes room for honest feeling and greater self-understanding. Physically, it honors the body as part of our spiritual life—deserving rest, attention, and care.

For me, the name expresses a guiding intention: **to help people explore their spiritual nature and bring that understanding into a more conscious, grounded, and meaningful human life.**
🤍
Beth

In the comments on a recent post, I was asked “how to get started in demonstrations and fairs.” I put this information ...
10/18/2026

In the comments on a recent post, I was asked “how to get started in demonstrations and fairs.” I put this information together. Hopefully this is helpful for anyone who wants to get started.

I definitely recommend starting small and building from there. You don’t want to start with something that takes a lot of coordination and has a lot of expectation, because it might also come with a higher risk of not working out.

Give yourself small events to build an audience and confidence. These smaller events can have a higher success rate and you can build on those. Give yourself opportunities for success as you build your business and your following. My notes below were taken directly from my response, although edited here. 

🔆For Demonstrations🔆

I would recommend you start doing those online for free. You can do them with other people until you feel comfortable doing one on your own. I still do them with other people, but I don’t have any issues with doing them by myself either, I just like to give people some variety and a longer event. I just did one yesterday with two friends from the Netherlands and Scotland. That’s the good thing about Zoom, that you can invite friends from anywhere in the world to demonstrate with you! And once you’ve done some with other people and you feel comfortable, you can do some on your own. That’s an excellent way to build out your following, by offering free demonstrations.

It’s also a great way to get reviews if you drop your Facebook link and ask people to leave a review.

In person demonstrations take a little more coordination. You need a location, you have to create the event online, and then you have to advertise. Some ways that I advertise events are, of course on social media. Creating an event in Facebook is the most important because everyone looks through events to find things to do.

🔆Standard Event Marketing🔆

Sometimes I will also print flyers and put them in places where people would see them, coffee, shops, libraries, etc. You always have to check with the location because not everyone allows flyers and some libraries will only place flyers for free events in their community or in their library.

You can also add the event space as a cohost on the event so they can market it on their Facebook business page as well. If you do any demonstrations with other people, all of you, if you could add them as a cohost, and you can invite anyone from your list of followers, so that’s really helpful to get the information out.

You can also send out a marketing email if you have a list of clients and emails.

Work smarter, not harder. I used Canva for years and I’m an expert in Canva and I absolutely love it. I still pay for it because I use it from time to time, but really with just a few sentences, we can get AI to create anything we want. I like to use AI, but I like to create flyers that don’t look fantastical. I like them to look normal. Of course we can always identify something that is creative with AI, but I like for my photos to look like me and I don’t like to put too much glitz on my posters and flyers! I know some people hate AI, but if I can do a flyer and 2 to 5 minutes as opposed to 20-45 minutes, I’m going to use AI. I try to keep it simple and just put all the information people need to know and nothing more. 

Also, what I do is I share in local town groups in the surrounding area, but be sure to check with each of those because they all have very specific rules and they will delete your post and ban you if you break the rules! But I also share on lots of spiritual groups and, in my case, New England based event groups. 

🔆Regarding Fairs🔆

I would make a business card and go around to wellness centers in your area and introduce yourself.  sidenote, many wellness centers work by Appt only, so you may have to reach out to the manager or director or just one of the business owners. Ask who coordinates the fairs so that you can get in contact with that person and get on their vendor list.

🔆Vendor Fees🔆

Understand that a lot of the centers use the same vendors over and over because it’s easy and time-tested. But sometimes, if they have an opening, they will reach out to a new vendor and give you an opportunity to step in. Also, all of these places have vendor fees, even if you are doing a town fair or farmers market or anything, they always require you to pay a table or tent fee. They can be anywhere from $20 to more than $100 and I’ve definitely seen some over $200, but that’s not common. 

Be careful about very niche fairs with high vendor fees, especially if you’re not a regular reader and people don’t know you. Those are ones I would steer clear of in the beginning. Down the road when you’ve made a name for yourself locally, those might be OK, but you definitely don’t want to pay more in vendor fees than you earn. Some of them might have many readers so you can ask that as well . If you’re the only reader, you’ll do great no matter where you go, but if there are 10 readers and you’re paying $150, I would be careful.

Another note: Sometimes, as vendors, you have to bring your own table and sometimes even your own chairs. I would absolutely go to someplace like big lots or BJ’s or Costco or even Walmart and look for party tables. My husband got a 4 foot folding table for me at BJs that is light and easy to set up and only cost like $48. I probably need to get a couple of chairs. Also from experience, bring a pillow with you if you’re going to be sitting in a chair all day!

You can also create electronic and print flyers to share these as events. Everything you do, I would make an event on your Facebook business page, then share the event on your stories.

🔆Watch Out for Scammers🔆

In New England, we have a lot of great event pages. Some pages where I can find events that I would like to work are CT Vendor Events and CT Events. I would always always double check with the location that the person posting is allowed to post as their vendor representative and make sure that you confirm the email with the location as the person who is the final contact for vendor applications and payment/questions. I cannot tell you how many times I have posted under an event and gotten multiple messages from people not associated with the event who will send you information and payment info as if they are the person who is the vendor contact. Make sure you research this!!! Most people who post will say, “I am the only contact for this event,” so if you don’t hear from that person at that specific email, do not even respond. I will go a step further and send the spam emails back to the contact once they reach out to me so they know these people are trying to spam vendors for money. 

🔆Benefits of Starting Small and Growing Organically🔆

Doing a fair can be pretty intense. If you would like to start a little bit smaller, I would recommend going to shops in your area. Crystal shops, gift shops, even little bistros or coffee shops that have days where they bring people in for a local spotlight. I got started with events reading at a couple of local shop one Saturday a month with one a couple of one-time reading events with the other (I still get recommendations from the amazing staff there!!). Some days I didn’t get anyone, some days I would have two or three readings and some days I would have 9 to 10 readings. It just depends on the Saturday, what’s going on in the town (are they having a festival or celebration?), and how busy the shop is.

There are so many opportunities if you spend time to find them. I have also had opportunities that were absolute duds. Not everything works out, but it’s good experience even to have the ones that don’t work because you know what you won’t sign up for in the future.

🔆Create Your Own Event🔆

Finally, don’t be afraid to create your own event either through a collaboration with another reader, light worker, or with a business. Work out a pricing structure that feels fair to both of you and market the heck out of it. But also keep an eye on pricing. If you have not made a name for yourself yet, you won’t be able to get $100 for a ticket. Even well-known mediums don’t really charge more than $65 per person for most of these local events.

One thing I did over the past six months or so was I created something I called “The Reading Room | Saturday Sessions.” The idea behind this was that a person pays me full price for a session if I have to meet them at the office, set up all my things, do a reading for them, break everything down, and close up the office. That’s just part of it. And a person will pay a discounted rate by about 20% or so if they, in the past, went to the fair and got a reading from me. The fairs are very high turnover as you’re usually sitting with a person for anywhere from 10 to 30 minutes, average being 20, of course. But I thought that I wanted something in between both of these that would help me reach people who didn’t like the noise and crowds of a fair (like me!), but also might not book a session with me at regular price just because I know it’s not a price point that everyone can afford. So I created these Saturday sessions where and I will go into the office for 5 to 7 hours so I drive to the office, set up, but then I will have the same number of clients I might have during a fair, but because the whole day is a slower pace, and I’m usually the only one in the office that day, I will charge a rate between the discounted fair price and my regular price. And that rate is 15% off my normal price. What I’ve done now is I have actually raised my fair rate so now I charge the same at both fair days and Saturday sessions. At the beginning of the year I will increase my regular reading price and slightly increased the Saturday session price, but keep the same.  I love the reading room because it’s like having my own personal fair day. Those have been pretty successful. When I had my office, I only had to do 3-4 readings one Saturday a month to pay my rent.  I usually ended up with 5 to 7 readings. Then all the other events I had during the month were just extra money I earned after the rent was paid. 

I also organized this information into a couple of infographics. I hope these are helpful! 

Feel free to comment below if you have questions about creating an event, marketing it, social media, creating a business page, pricing structure, or anything at all!  also, you might want to look through my current in past events, because some of your questions might be easily answered, glancing through the photos and details in the event.

Warmly,
Beth 🤍

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