07/25/2026
“I let go.” This was a “go to” statement that John often used and I initially thought this was too simple. The mind seems to only believe something if it’s complex because somehow complexity means it’s better. It took a deep dive into my own healing to discover the context of why simplicity leaves more room for the deep complexity of the intuitive body to do what it needs to do. As soon as the mind needs to narrate the process, everything slows to the speed of language. It’s like learning to surf with a book in your hand trying to find the chapter on balance.
“I let go” also allows room for love to do its work. One example is the struggle many of us have with feeling worthy. You may have found that giving yourself the mantra of “I am worthy” doesn’t exactly free one from the belief or open the door to freedom. If it did, great, keep doing that. Energetically I found myself trapped in the worry of losing worthiness if I did something to disqualify myself. I went from being down below to high on the pedestal of worthiness, trying not to fall off.
Love isn’t concerned with whether or not you are worthy, it just loves. There is nothing to prove or qualify for. It’s like the sun. It shines on everyone no matter your credentials. The only block is one’s willingness to receive love, because like myofascial release, it never forces. I find saying, “I let go” is a way to open the door to receive love, not because of the concept, but the feeling of openness I feel in my body and energetic field when I say those words.
So many things that John taught through the years continues to come back to me in new ways. I have felt so much shift within myself since John’s passing. It has brought a new quiet confidence that John modeled is his presence when he was treating and teaching. The deeper I go into my own healing and evolution by allowing awareness to express itself through me, the more I realize who we are is so powerful when we are free of our stories and our projections. It is what is released when we “let go.”
Richard Harty, PT
MFR I, II, III, Fascial Pelvis, Fascial Cranium, Cervical Thoracic, Quantum Leap, Rebounding, Unwinding, Advanced Unwinding, Subtle Energy, Myofascial Mobilization, Skill Enhancement, Instructor, and Therapy for the Therapist.
Producer of Fireside Chat and MFR I DVD course.
Author of the book titled The Music of Consciousness and The Art of Myofascial Release.