13/08/2024
Why do we say we’re sorry for things that aren’t our fault?
It’s like we could’ve prevented whatever happened from happening in the first place.
And that’s just ludicrous (not to be confused with the rapper, Ludacris 😆).
How many times have you said “I’m sorry….” and the other person responds by telling you it isn’t your fault?
🥴
Next time, try saying “I wish…” instead.
“I’m sorry you’re going through this..” —> “I wish you weren’t going through this.”
“I’m sorry that happened to you.” —> “I wish that didn’t happen to you.”
“I’m sorry you’re in pain.” —> “I wish you weren’t in pain.”
You still get to acknowledge what the person is saying without subconciously taking on blame.