The Cosmic Craft

10/13/2026

The dreaded question of “what if” when it comes to regret, bartering, and the more murky stages of pet grief…

10/10/2026

The leaves teach me something new about letting go, attachment theory, and grief every year. You’d think that you’d watch autumn once, and learn everything there is to know.

The truth is, the trees are able to instill so much knowledge without ever saying a word.

If that’s not power, I don’t know what is…

10/09/2026

I had so much fun contributing my astrological and spiritual expertise for this article!

Keep an eye out!

10/05/2026

Last weeks podcast was a good one. It's something less talked about than it should be, and I'm looking forward to diving in deeper with y'all for this topic. I know the first year without Armin, I really struggled with my decision.

Heck, there's even some days now that I wonder.

I go into my personal decision, and what I talk about with clients in this episode.

Save this, or send it to someone you know struggling with their decision to euthanize their darling one. This could have been an hour long episode, easily, but, maybe one day in the future...

Navigating the 'What Ifs' of Pet Loss with Compassion Exploring the complexities of grief and decision-making in pet care. If you've ever found yourself consumed by the thoughts of what could have been, especially regarding a beloved pet, you're not alone. In this episode, I dive deep into the emo

09/23/2026

This is pretty much the secret sauce of my personalized approach to grief work…

Feeling this moment authentically wasn’t something I was necessarily mindful of — I felt it bubbling up and FELT IT.

I didn’t think my way out of my grief. I didn’t try to make it fit for public consumption. It doesn’t matter if it’s a human or animal companion, our grief needs to be embodied.

And honestly, I’m not upset with how I handled any of my grief. I accept it as something natural, like breathing.

What a gift that I’ve experienced love in a way that reminds me I’m wildly alive. I spent so much of my life making sure I never got “too close” to people, and in this phase of my life — if it’s not authentic and honest I don’t want it.

Grief compounds. I recorded a whole podcast episode on the anniversary of my soul cat dying a few days after my mentor did.

My paternal grandfather died this year too.

To say it’s been heavy is an understatement, but my life has been rich with love and compassion.

The sacred space I create in astrology readings, herbal consultations, and any of my containers is something LIVING.

This isn’t something regurgitated from a text book. It’s compounded conversations, experiences, and the longing for a more connected future.

I truly believe in a world where we can grieve and be supported fully and with compassion. I hope it’s something more normalized.

I share these intimate parts of my life because life isn’t a highlight reel.

It’s messy and raw. But I’m so proud of the interactive life around me that I’ve built.

If you’re looking for it, this is your permission slip to be HUMAN.

Mess up. Grow. Laugh. Cry. Shake. Dance. Cry again. It’s all a part of the gift.

If you’re afraid of big emotions like grief, sadness, and anger — I’m glad you’re here.

My work is proof that you can feel your emotions without them taking over your life.

Every Thursday you can hear me in your headphones, on your daily commute, or just spend some virtual time together by listening to Iridescent 💛

Together, we can create space to get to know the grief in our lives, especially that of losing a pet. Grief is grief. There’s no comparison.

But there c

09/22/2026

The number one underlying issue clients have with death, anticipatory grief, and mourning of their pets is the lack of control.

But what happens when we start to shift the power dynamic?🦋

09/21/2026

Getting to know your grief is a way of living, not only something to do in a state of crisis 🌹

09/09/2026

Most of my life has been built on the sentence: “I have absolutely no idea what’s going to happen, but let’s find out.”

& wow am I so grateful for my Jupiter in the 12th house and my innate ability to trust my gut.

09/08/2026

One of the biggest lies we hear as grieving pet parents? “Time heals all wounds.” 🤦‍♀️

Let’s be real: time doesn’t heal anything. It’s what you do with that time that matters…

After losing my beloved cat, Armin, I was overwhelmed by raw emotions and constant reminders of his absence.

Every time I walked into the kitchen (his favorite spot) I was hit with the reality that he wasn’t there anymore.

Time didn’t make the hurt “go away” I just did something with it. I knew I needed to transmute the pain I was feeling in my heart.

Don’t be influenced into thinking that your grief has certain timelines or ways it needs to look.

The act of mourning is something sacred. Your ability to talk about it without crying doesn’t act as a unit of measurement for how “over it” you are.

That’s the hidden truth about grief, it’s not just about time, it’s not even about “being healed” from it.

It’s something that moved with you. Something that begs for attention. It changes your life forever.

So why are you so worried about when it will “end” or how to run from it?

What if the whole point isn’t to stop the hurt?

That rituals and routines that once brought you comfort can feel so disregulated when your familiar isn’t around to participate.

But what if that’s just an invitation to change the ritual? To bring more intention and purpose into your being.

Read this one again and again.

You don’t owe anyone a version of grief that best suits them. This is uniquely YOURS. It will ebb and flow throughout your life.

Grief isn’t linear, and it certainly doesn’t follow a timeline.

It’s messy, complex, and deeply personal. I learned that healing isn’t just about waiting for time to pass; it’s about actively engaging with my grief, creating rituals, and allowing myself to feel.

For me, it meant transforming everyday moments into meaningful rituals – like stirring my tea while speaking words of intention. Scheduling daily unhappy time. Moving my body with love and care.

These small acts helped me reclaim a sense of autonomy and comfort amidst the chaos of grief.

Don’t let the dam gates rush open. Your emotions don’t have to rule every inch of your life in grief