13/08/2026
OK so let's get this campaign up and running.
I am Tracey and Mum to two daughters, my mental health history has been long and arduous, and I will be sharing it over time. A brief introduction is that I entered into therapy for an eating disorder in my teens and escalated into suicidal ideation and harming behaviours that lasted decades.
What I now know, at 53, is that I have lived with undiagnosed ADHD and my story is NOT a unique one.
The purpose of this campaign is to speak openly about the effects of not getting a time-appropriate diagnosis of ADHD and how this impacts parenting, food behaviours, addictions, debt, social behaviours, anxiety, depression and personal identity (the list is endless!!)
Shame is a complex emotion and is something many people with ADHD carry, the problem is that it keeps us stuck in the mindset that we are broken. We are not broken, there are differences in brain circuitry that make it hard to navigate modern day life.
I want to reduce shame and advocate for better resources and support, along with improving screening opportunies to avoid missed or mis-diagnoses.
The need for change is driven by the impact my behaviours had on my daughters. Whilst ADHD is not an excuses for being emotionally absent, with understanding and the right support things could have looked very differently.
We can't change the past BUT we can advocate for a better future as ADHD is not going to disappear. If you have had an adult diagnosis and would like to share your journey or get involved, please contact me at [email protected]
Thanks for reading and a gentle nudge to Plymouth Live you were interested in this and were going to get a reporter to reach out :-)