Rolene Albertyn - Transpersonal Guide and Spiritual Counsellor

16/12/2019

Dear Fellow Life Travellers,
It is the time of year where some of us might have a sense of excitement in anticipation of the new year. And with that, perhaps a sense of knowing that we need to clear out the old to welcome the new into our lives or that the old just perhaps needs a little injection of fresh energy. If you would like to embrace the new year with a renewed vitality and a fresh new set of attainable goals, you are welcome to whatsapp me on 072 950 1460 or email [email protected], to assist you in your quest.
Much Love, Rolene 💛

30/04/2018

23/04/2018

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Opportunities to find deeper powers within ourselves come when life seems most challenging.
~ Joseph Campbell

12/04/2018

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Self-care is often a very unbeautiful thing.
It is making a spreadsheet of your debt and enforcing a morning routine and cooking yourself healthy meals and no longer just running from your problems and calling the distraction a solution.

It is often doing the ugliest thing that you have to do, like sweat through another workout or tell a toxic friend you don’t want to see them anymore or get a second job so you can have a savings account or figure out a way to accept yourself so that you’re not constantly exhausted from trying to be everything, all the time and then needing to take deliberate, mandated breaks from living to do basic things like drop some oil into a bath and read Marie Claire and turn your phone off for the day.

A world in which self-care has to be such a trendy topic is a world that is sick. Self-care should not be something we resort to because we are so absolutely exhausted that we need some reprieve from our own relentless internal pressure.
True self-care is not salt baths and chocolate cake, it is making the choice to build a life you don’t need to regularly escape from.

And that often takes doing the thing you least want to do.
It often means looking your failures and disappointments square in the eye and re-strategizing. It is not satiating your immediate desires. It is letting go. It is choosing new. It is disappointing some people. It is making sacrifices for others.

It is living a way that other people won’t, so maybe you can live in a way that other people can’t.
It is letting yourself be normal. Regular. Unexceptional. It is sometimes having a dirty kitchen and deciding your ultimate goal in life isn’t going to be having abs and keeping up with your fake friends. It is deciding how much of your anxiety comes from not actualizing your latent potential, and how much comes from the way you were being trained to think before you even knew what was happening.

If you find yourself having to regularly indulge in consumer self-care, it’s because you are disconnected from actual self-care, which has very little to do with “treating yourself” and a whole lot do with parenting yourself and making choices for your long-term wellness.

It is no longer using your hectic and unreasonable life as justification for self-sabotage in the form of liquor and procrastination. It is learning how to stop trying to “fix yourself” and start trying to take care of yourself… and maybe finding that taking care lovingly attends to a lot of the problems you were trying to fix in the first place.

It means being the hero of your life, not the victim. It means rewiring what you have until your everyday life isn’t something you need therapy to recover from. It is no longer choosing a life that looks good over a life that feels good.

It is giving the hell up on some goals so you can care about others. It is being honest even if that means you aren’t universally liked. It is meeting your own needs so you aren’t anxious and dependent on other people.

It is becoming the person you know you want and are meant to be. Someone who knows that salt baths and chocolate cake are ways to enjoy life – not escape from it.

Brianna Wiest

12/04/2018

A good explanation of how our shadow aspects direct our lives on an unconscious level. The subconscious mind is 80% and the conscious mind only 20%; yet it is the subconscious that drives our beliefs and actions. It is thus imperative to delve into the reaches of the subconscious to find our motives for the things we do and say in life.

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2079548205395002&id=229860597030448

“We ought to be much more fearful of what we don’t know. We should really be fearful of an unconscious that inhabits us, that guides us, that influences our life and of which we don’t know the face and don’t know the message. Actually I have much less fear since I confronted fears. What’s frightening to me is people whose unconscious leads them, destroys them, and yet they will never stop and look at it. That’s the minotaur in the labyrinth, which many people never come face to face with. There was a very remarkable percussion composer, Edgar Varese, who always mocked psychology, mocked psychoanalysis, mocked psychiatry. He was satirical about it, wouldn’t have any of it. And yet his whole life pattern was self-destructive. He was an innovator and a tremendous musician. But he blocked himself. His biography is out now, and you can see the pattern. You can see this demon that was driving him, the origin of it. He seemed to be a very fearless, strong, tremendous tempered man with great force; he even looked like a Corsican bandit. But he had no power over the forces that were pushing him. That is what frightens me.”

Anaïs Nin

05/04/2018

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When intense life challenges occur and everything that you invested your self image and survival on combusts and crumbles, it is always a massive spiritual initiation happening that can serve to propel you out of old identifications into a whole new level of pure awareness, wholeness and ensuing life direction.

This is actually the purpose of it, it is not a curse.
It is a huge evolutionary shift occurring that you are ready for or it would not be happening.

To hold compassionate space for your own pain without feeling victimized by your own thoughts and by life is the key to coming through this with the gifts that are being offered.
It is said that we are never given more than we can handle. You are stronger than you think, you are more powerful and more valuable than you think. A lot of energy on an invisible level is holding you right now, gunning for you right now... You can call on these angels and guides, they will assist you and help you.

Have faith and trust that you will come through this and there will be a new dawn and beauty will prevail.
Let go of any feelings of failure. This is not what this is about... Such thoughts are illusory mental constructs that have no baring on what is really happening on a spiritual level. They are a result of old programmed paradigms that want to be shifted...

Rock bottom is the most potent place that we can fully meet ourselves stripped of everything but the bare bones of our own illusions." This cracks open our ego and allows the light to come in and illuminate the truth.

It is said that "the truth will set us free."
Love to all going through this right now.

03/04/2018

Allow me to assist you in connecting with your purpose.

(Aknowlegement to Centre of Applied Jungian Studies)

29/03/2018

So well put.

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'I think midlife is when the Universe gently places her hands upon your shoulders, pulls you close, and whispers in your ear:
I’m not screwing around. It’s time. All of this pretending and performing – these coping mechanisms that you’ve developed to protect yourself from feeling inadequate and getting hurt – has to go.

Your armor is preventing you from growing into your gifts. I understand that you needed these protections when you were small. I understand that you believed your armor could help you secure all of the things you needed to feel worthy of love and belonging, but you’re still searching and you’re more lost than ever.

Time is growing short. There are unexplored adventures ahead of you. You can’t live the rest of your life worried about what other people think. You were born worthy of love and belonging. Courage and daring are coursing through you. You were made to live and love with your whole heart. It’s time to show up and be seen.''

Brené Brown
Art: greno89

20/03/2018

FOR THOSE WHO ARE CURIOUS ABOUT PAST LIFETIMES.

To me, it is clear that this little girl has brought forward a past life gift. As you watch, you will see that she embodies that past life character. This is not merely imitation, but a deep feeling for and understanding of the music.

This I see in my work too, when we do past life regressions and the process I offer, can specifically be targeted to reactivate your past life gifts.

Contact me on 072 950 1460 for your session.

Little girl conducting a church choir in Kyrgyzstan.