03/11/2026
Yesterday, while gathering the beautiful lilac blossoms from my Princess Tree to create a new flower essence, I experienced something rather special.
As I connected with the tree, a message came through very clearly and directly.
“Know when to bloom, know when to let go. Things can be beautiful but not healthy to hold onto.”
I hadn’t researched the flower essence or what its intentions might be. I simply followed what I felt and allowed the experience to unfold.
It was only afterwards, when I began looking into existing Princess Tree flower essences, that I discovered their themes of self-worth, emotional independence, inner sovereignty and recognising that our value isn’t determined by the acceptance or approval of others.
And I found that connection quite extraordinary.
Because something I’ve been learning in my own life is that we can love people deeply, appreciate everything they’ve brought into our lives, and still recognise that holding onto a relationship may no longer be healthy for us.
We don’t have to stop loving someone to let them go.
We can miss them, wish them happiness and honour the beautiful experiences we’ve shared, without continuing to place ourselves in situations that hurt us.
And perhaps most importantly, we can recognise that we deserve the same love, compassion and understanding we’ve always offered others.
Letting go doesn’t mean the love disappears, or that the beauty was never real.
It simply means recognising that our own wellbeing matters too.
This new Princess Tree Flower Essence carries the intention of supporting self-worth, emotional independence, discernment, healthy boundaries and the courage to recognise when it’s time to bloom and when it’s time to let go.
Not to become less loving, but to remember to include ourselves in that love.
I love that I received this message before knowing anything about the existing flower essence interpretations.
Sometimes the flowers have something to teach us, if we’re willing to listen.
Plants teach. Flowers speak. We listen.