03/11/2026
πͺπ¬ Many people say: βI donβt want to reopen that love!β
βI donβt want to feel that pain again!β
β’ Until such love is set free, love wonβt fully flow again; you are never really detached from that pain.
Youβve built coping mechanisms/personalities around it, and the other relationships you encounter are a product of those coping mechanisms; they arenβt really free to exist!
β’ A love, a relationship ends only with gratitude. It ends only with a final βThank you!β.
β’ When love makes it flourish and grow. He becomes more of a man, and she becomes more of a woman. They evolve through one another. When it cannot, they stay until it evolves them, until it leads them back home, to their families of origin. What is left after such service? One emotion remains after the grieving: gratitude.
If gratitude is not present at the end of the relationship, that is not the end!
It simply means you have not taken that love and that relationship in full, and that is why you cannot let it go!
With your mother, your father, your ex, and so on.
β’ What does it mean to take that relationship in full? It means embodying that love. Taking it into the body. Experience it. Different from accepting. Accepting is more superficial. I can accept something and remain entitled to it. Out of pride, perhaps I remain superior, safe, and above, but when I take it, I have experienced that love through the body, which means I have opened my heart to it.
Are you ready to say βThank youβ? Are you ready to take this solid, courageous last step?
Letβs go.π
β’ Upcoming online Constellations gathering (5/11 4.30Pm to 6 PM CEST): Open Request - Q&A and Theme of your choice.
π» Comment π βAcademyβ for more info.
Upcoming in-person events:
β’ β πͺπ¬ 13/14 Nov - Comment π βCairoβ
β’ π¦πͺ 21/22 Nov - Comment π βDubaiβ