26/10/2026
Gut health = mental health. If your child isn’t acting or looking like themselves, start by inspecting their diet. I’m a nutrition coach for women and children and I was shocked at how much sugar, preservatives and food dye had snuck into her weekly regimen. I only buy organic Whole Foods and cook regularly, yet she was getting dosed with foods that hurt her gut, brain, mood and joy. Dark circles, broken sleep, quicker to anger, picking at dinner and craving sugar on repeat. Not extreme levels, but enough to notice.
When I took stock of what she was consuming, I realized it was the cumulative effect of kindergarten canteen days and a run of birthday parties that had quietly rewritten her diet. The more sugar on the weekend, the less protein she wanted all week, and the more dysregulated she got. Not all children are wired the same. Some can eat anything and feel fine. Not mine. And I thought I’d share what I did.
Here’s what turned it around:
1. A warm, honest chat. I was sick, she’d just been sick, so I told her we needed to eat healthier as a family to get sick less often, and asked for her help.
2. The “why” but in HER language. Gluten, dairy, sugars, packaged and dyed foods make our tummies hurt and make us tired.
3. We ALL did it. As a family. Because these changes genuinely serve all of our goals, at 42 years old, 5 and 2 years old. Nobody eats differently from her at our table.
4. A clean slate. The cheese, the biscuits I’d been talked into buying and the lolly bags all went.
5. Something to look forward to. She gets to choose one aligned dinner per week. And once our guts feel better, we bake one yummy thing together every week.
6. Connection to the kitchen in a healthy, self esteem building way. She helps cook dinner now. The other night she made us lamb chops, better than I ever have. And she is so proud and engaged.
Her energy, mood, behavior and joy have skyrocketed. In days, not weeks.
Save this if you’re noticing changes in someone you love. Send it to a mama solving the never-ending mystery of mood, behavior and attention.
Which of the 5 clues have you noticed at your house?