10/31/2026
One of the most common fears we hear in the therapy room is this: "If I let myself feel these feelings, I’ll fall apart—and I’ll never be able to put myself back together again."
It is a terrifying thought. But there is something very important that your nervous system has forgotten: You have already lived through the experience.
The trauma happened. You survived it. Your brain, body, and mind are simply still acting as if the danger is happening right now.
At Lori Gill Psychotherapy, we don't just "open the floodgates."
We use a highly structured, neurosequential model to help you move through the experience to resolution.
We focus on:
Depotentiating the charge: Reducing the "voltage" of the trauma so it no longer controls your reactions.
Discharging residual energy: Helping your body physically release the survival energy (fight/flight/freeze) that has been trapped for years.
Creating reparative experiences: Giving your nervous system the "missing" experience of safety and support.
Integration: Helping your brain place the experience in the past—in its proper space and time—so it no longer feels like a present-day threat.
You aren't going to "fall apart." You are going to integrate. You are going to take the pieces of your story that have been scattered by trauma and finally put them back together in a way that makes you whole.
You’ve already done the hard part—you survived. Now, let us help you finish the work. 🤍