Come As You Are Co-operative

Come As You Are Co-operative Founded as a worker-owned co-operative in 1997 and winner of Toronto's Best S*x Shop!
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Founded as a worker-owned co-operative s*x shop in 1997, we have a fundamentally anti-capitalist and feminist approach to s*xual pleasure, health, and education. Unlike most retailers, we don't make commission and we don't profit from your purchases. We review every s*x toy, book, and DVD we stock and we ONLY carry products that we truly believe in.

CAPITALISM SUCKS, AND IT SUCKS HAVING TO EXPLAIN WHY IT SUCKS AND IT SUCKS THAT AHOLES WILL ARGUE IT DOESN’T SUCK.   🐪🐫 ...
07/17/2024

CAPITALISM SUCKS, AND IT SUCKS HAVING TO EXPLAIN WHY IT SUCKS AND IT SUCKS THAT AHOLES WILL ARGUE IT DOESN’T SUCK.

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Listen to me. Your body was made for joy. It was made for healing. It was made - and you might have to trust me on this ...
07/16/2024

Listen to me. Your body was made for joy. It was made for healing. It was made - and you might have to trust me on this - for a**l or***ms. *xwithemily

2) Ultimate Guide To A**l S*x For Men

3) Ultimate Guide To A**l S*x For Women

4)Unf**k Your An*****us Zine

5)Ultimate Guide To Prostate Pleasure

What are Sleeves?Sleeves - also called ma********on sleeves, masturbators, and (our preferred term) insertion toys - are...
07/15/2024

What are Sleeves?

Sleeves - also called ma********on sleeves, masturbators, and (our preferred term) insertion toys - are one of the most popular types of s*x toys.

A basic ma********on sleeve is a cylindrical sheath that can either be moved up and down the shaft or remain still while the person moves in and out of the sleeve. There are thousands of different styles of insertion toys on the market, each with its benefits and drawbacks.

Some of the most commonly known - and popular - ma********on sleeves on the market are made by Fleshlight and Tenga.

Second only to di**os, ma********on sleeves are one of the oldest kinds of s*x toys. They’ve come a long way thanks to new materials and design. With vibration, extra stimulation suction chambers, and an endless variety of internal bumps and grooves, ma********on sleeves are a great way to change up any solo s*x or partner s*x routine.

The Fleshlight remains our best selling sleeve and while there have been many imitators no one has matched its quality in feel and durability.

Don’t worry, we’ve got you covered.This Mini Suede Flogger features a Spanish calf leather handle, with suede leather ta...
07/13/2024

Don’t worry, we’ve got you covered.

This Mini Suede Flogger features a Spanish calf leather handle, with suede leather tails.

It’s got beautiful balance, and, offers a discrete size for travel, or, for reaching those yummy hard-to-reach places!

Suede is a luxurious and supple material that offers percussion without a great deal of bite. That being said, the thin cut of the tails do still offer some sting from this toy.

Further, don’t be deceived by this small flogger - it’s not the size that matters... it’s how you use it!

This flogger is fantastic for anything ranging from intense to mild impact play, and, is well suited for all levels of experience.

6Whips, an indie company based in Hamilton, Ontario has stolen our hearts with their gorgeous high quality leatherwork.

Tail Length = 14”
Handle Length = 6”
Overall Length = 23”

Technically, it’s a vi****or…but I guess vibe-do, vibe-don’t isn’t quite the same…The so-called rabbit vi****or or dual-...
07/12/2024

Technically, it’s a vi****or…but I guess vibe-do, vibe-don’t isn’t quite the same…

The so-called rabbit vi****or or dual-function vi****or is probably the most well-known style of vibe in existence, but it is also the most hit or miss kind of vi****or for most users because it has to fit the body just right to provide stimulation to both the g-**ot and the cl****is.

Further, because dual-function vibes can only be used one way, we tend to recommend g-**ot vi****ors, like the Lelo Mona 2, as first vibes (because they can be used for either g-**ot or cl****al stimulation).

📢But if you KNOW rabbit vi****ors work for you, then listens up! 📢

🐇The LELO Ina 3 Rabbit Vi****or is one of the most powerful dual-function rabbit vi****ors on the planet, and with ten different vibration modes, it is also one of the most stimulating! With more than 30% more power than the Lelo Ina 2 and an extra long battery life, this is a huge upgrade from Lelo’s previous rabbit vi****or.

🐇Made of body-safe materials, this vi****or is completely waterproof, super easy to clean and maintain, and features a silicone skin that is impossibly smooth to the touch!

New!A clear explanation of what being non-binary means, and what it means to be outside of the gender binary.This is a k...
07/11/2024

New!

A clear explanation of what being non-binary means, and what it means to be outside of the gender binary.

This is a kids book about non-binary identities. But what does being non-binary mean? For some people, the question and its answer may be new or a little confusing.

It’s okay to not know what it means! That’s where all good conversations start. The journey to understanding starts with an open mind and an open heart.

This book is an introduction for anyone who doesn’t feel like their gender matches how other people see them, and helps to start discussions about non-binary with kids aged 5-9.

A Kids Book About Non-Binary features:

- A large and bold, yet minimalist font design that allows kids freedom to imagine themselves in the words on the pages.

- A friendly, approachable, yet empowering, kid-appropriate tone throughout.

- An incredible and diverse group of authors in the series who are experts or have first-hand experience of the topic.

All se* is choke se* when you’re being strangled by the invisible hand of capitalism   🐫🐪
07/10/2024

All se* is choke se* when you’re being strangled by the invisible hand of capitalism

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Want to explore a**l play without ending up at the ER at 3AM?  We want that for you too! An a**l toy is a toy that has b...
07/09/2024

Want to explore a**l play without ending up at the ER at 3AM?

We want that for you too!

An a**l toy is a toy that has been designed with a**l exploration, pleasure, and safety in mind. A**l toys offer a wide range of sensations and possibilities for exploring a**l play by yourself or with a partner.

There are four main kinds of a**l toys: a**l beads, a**l di**os, butt plugs, and prostate massagers.

Regardless of which you choose, all a**l toys should have the same key design features in order to make them as safe and pleasurable as possible to use:

🍑 They should be smooth, without sharp edges or seams.
🍑 They should have a flared base or handle that prevents them from slipping all the way into the re**um.
🍑 They should be made of a strong material that is easy to clean (non-porous is best)!

We care about your s*xual health and safety. That’s why we have a TON of free information available on our website. Click on through and explore a wide variety of s*xual health topics under “info” tab!

Hallelujah!🇻🇦All hail the most holy and profane of all silicone di**os: Hole Punch Toys Mother Interior. 🪬 Handmade with...
07/05/2024

Hallelujah!

🇻🇦All hail the most holy and profane of all silicone di**os: Hole Punch Toys Mother Interior.

🪬 Handmade with love and care in the USA, Hole Punch Toys are known for their whimsical but practical silicone objets d’art and this nun d***o is no exception.

✝️ Hole Punch Toys Mother Interior artisa**l silicone nun d***o is firm, curvaceous, and aching to burst through the constraints of chastity and obedience to be the central figure of your next sin-laden romp. Hail Marys optional.

💧Anoint with l**e to enhance your play.

🙏🏼Pairs well with the holiest adornment, the St. Vi****or Pin

This is not what she meant.  🐊 See you later alligator…📿B***y tool a**l beads 💎 Crystal steel butt plug 🚀 B***y rocket v...
07/04/2024

This is not what she meant. 🐊 See you later alligator…

📿B***y tool a**l beads

💎 Crystal steel butt plug

🚀 B***y rocket vibrating ply

07/03/2024
“Happy Father’s Day to leather daddies of all genders and leather daddies of all genders only” .lantern
06/16/2024

“Happy Father’s Day to leather daddies of all genders and leather daddies of all genders only” .lantern

JJ Casuals released a new line: shoes that look like penes!☁️ Happy Monday!   😂
04/29/2024

JJ Casuals released a new line: shoes that look like penes!

☁️ Happy Monday!

😂

Yes,  ***anvisibilityday is over, but I think because I posted this with a .petit.poulet  ***rchemistry sticker image, f...
04/28/2024

Yes, ***anvisibilityday is over, but I think because I posted this with a .petit.poulet ***rchemistry sticker image, folks weren’t super motivated to read the caption, so here’s a thing we wrote about le***an visibility, invisibility, and

You can find a link to the full text on the front page of our site at comeasyouare.com and I’ll add a link from our bio as soon as I’ve had coffee.

Tl;dr none of this would exist without le***ans.

This is what happens when they leave ME in charge of our socials for a few days. Weird contests, talking to myself in th...
04/27/2024

This is what happens when they leave ME in charge of our socials for a few days. Weird contests, talking to myself in the comments, and posts.

Personally, I think regardless of the source, all income should be taxed as income. You shouldn’t get some big break because your money made money instead of your labour. But what do I know! The biggest dividend cheque I ever got from our co-op was $1500 and I used it to help pay for top surgery (when we had to pay out of pocket for such things).

once told me that the reason non-rich Americans vote against social programs and taxes on the wealthy is because Americans are raised to believe they might one day be rich and they don’t want to lose hypothetical money. I fear Canadians are becoming a bit the same.

Nonetheless, there’s a loophole to the loophole - sell your business to a worker co-op and get up to $10mil tax free. Yes, we really do read the newsletter!

And I promise, yer delightful will be back soon soon and you won’t have to read any more of my super boring posts about Canadian tax law.

Happy  ***anvisibilityday ! When I was a wee q***r doing little workshops with TEACH () in the 90s, the question we were...
04/26/2024

Happy ***anvisibilityday !

When I was a wee q***r doing little workshops with TEACH () in the 90s, the question we were inevitably asked was “what do le***ans even do in bed?”

Folks would ask this because they couldn’t even conceive of women experiencing or sharing pleasure without a dude being present. Heck, rumour has it that queen Victoria didn’t bother outlawing le***ans because she couldn’t conceive of two women being together.

There is a certain power and freedom in invisibility, but also a frustration in being denied a voice at the table, or not having one’s identity and relationships acknowledged and accepted.

I do get the sense so many years later that things are changing ever so slowly. As more people come out and as we all unpack our s*xism, le***ans will no longer be ignored or invalidated and will be seen for the beautiful people they/we are.

And heck, everyone could learn a thing or two from what le***ans do in bed. In fact, the existence of our shop proves that they have.

Behold the wonders of our weekly task list! We do our best to eschew hierarchical roles at our shop, and instead we shar...
04/25/2024

Behold the wonders of our weekly task list! We do our best to eschew hierarchical roles at our shop, and instead we share the responsibility of keeping the shop nice and well stocked with our handy dandy magnetic task list!

OBVIOUSLY, vibe check is the most important task of the week and is always completed first.

Wanna win something awesome and random? What do you think “vibe check” entails at CAYA? Best worst answer below wins something awesome. Tag a friend for an extra chance to win.

Open to folks in North America only because shipping is expensive!

Sure, you could get it on with yer Dune popcorn bucket, but why ruin the resale value of your collectors item when you’v...
04/13/2024

Sure, you could get it on with yer Dune popcorn bucket, but why ruin the resale value of your collectors item when you’ve got a purpose-built freaky alien sleeve at your disposal?

Available in a full-sized and version, behold the twists and turns of this shimmering blue alien fantasy courtesy of the Freaks alien sleeves!

The world’s most famous and pleasurable maker of super soft sleeves makes a Fleshlight to suit almost anyone’s tastes! Improve your endurance with the STU, get closer to , or indulge in your fave alien fantasy with the Freaks. You won’t be disappointed!

Aphrodisiac: The Herbal Path to Healthy S*xual Fulfillment and Vital Living 🌹🌱 Plants are the great healers of the earth...
03/16/2024

Aphrodisiac: The Herbal Path to Healthy S*xual Fulfillment and Vital Living 🌹

🌱 Plants are the great healers of the earth, and their capacity to support healthy s*xuality is just as powerful. This beautifully written and illustrated book brings you into a relationship with herbs for s*xual fulfillment and empowerment.

🌹 In Aphrodisiac, Kimberley Gallagher guides you on a personal journey of growth aided by the aphrodisiac properties and sensual uses of healing herbs and flowers such as damiana, cacao, and rose.

🪻 You’ll find thoughtful, soulful rituals and dozens of recipes for putting the herbs to use, such as Autumn Blush Cordial, Rose Massage Oil, and Cardamom Chocolate Mousse Torte. And you’ll learn a wide range of practices for inviting erotic energy flow into your life - including creating an inviting environment, nourishing your body, and simply slowing down so there’s time to savor pleasure.

✨ When we are sensually alive and s*xually fulfilled, we are more confident, creative, and joyful. Aphrodisiac is an essential resource for anyone wishing to live a more vibrant life.

Tactical Plus Nitrile Gloves are the perfect way to bring some style into any safer play routine!💦Nitrile is the perfect...
03/01/2024

Tactical Plus Nitrile Gloves are the perfect way to bring some style into any safer play routine!

💦Nitrile is the perfect material for safer play barriers. It is smooth, latex-free, and super durable. Perfect for anyone looking to use oil-based lubricants, nitrile is compatible with all kinds of l**es!

🖤Whether you’re looking to complete an all-black outfit or just want to protect yourself your lover or your clients, Tactical Plus Nitrile Gloves are gorgeous and provide a friction-resistant barrier to all kinds of fun.

✔️J Powder-free and available in small, medium, large, and X-large.

Good morning 🌰💦☀️     😂
02/26/2024

Good morning 🌰💦☀️

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Repost  Ana Bozicevic USwhatever happensI just have to rememberhow you feelwhen I put my handsto your chestyour soul a l...
02/25/2024

Repost

Ana Bozicevic

US

whatever happens
I just have to remember
how you feel
when I put my hands
to your chest
your soul a lightbulb
flashing just under your skin
what happens happens
this did
the membranes were thin
enough to let us eat light

From New Life
2023.


A book.
Every page, every poem.

Great bo***ge on or off a budget!One of the most wondrous things about s*x and B**M in particular is that we can experie...
02/24/2024

Great bo***ge on or off a budget!

One of the most wondrous things about s*x and B**M in particular is that we can experience a whole plethora of sensation and indulge our pleasures at any price point! Heck, you don’t even need a partner to play and most forms of s*x are totally FREE!

However, sometimes household pervertables - put away that electric toothbrush, ffs! - just don’t cut it and to be frank, that corded vinyl rope in the garage just isn’t safe to use for bo***ge.

We’re actually quite picky about our gear! We try everything we stock to make sure it is up to our standards, but just because something is inexpensive doesn’t mean it’s cheap.

We’ve got some new offerings this week and we couldn’t wait to share. Some of these items aren’t in-store yet - Harper is away this week and Jack’s been pulling double-duty - but we’ll make a point to get all of these goodies in-store by Monday!

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Essential Clinical Care for S*x Workers is an affirming and s*x-positive guide to working with s*x workers: uncovering c...
02/23/2024

Essential Clinical Care for S*x Workers is an affirming and s*x-positive guide to working with s*x workers: uncovering clinical biases, creating safe spaces, and dismantling the whorearchy.

Despite the wide range of s*x work—from street-based to OnlyFans—clinicians too often focus on what they think s*x workers need, instead of building trust, developing rapport, and really doing the work to understand the unique stressors that make quality mental health care essential for s*x worker communities.

S*x-positive therapists Theodore Burnes and Jamila Dawson break down everything that mental health providers need to know to work effectively with s*x workers, while dispeling the tired, pervasive myths that continue to impact treatment today.

As s*x work changes and evolves, encompassing everything from brothels to cam work, clinical care needs to catch up. This book shows you how!

1) It’s cute, it’s tempting, butt we wouldn’t recommend it 🥬2) instead, try this radish for your butt! What could be bet...
02/22/2024

1) It’s cute, it’s tempting, butt we wouldn’t recommend it 🥬

2) instead, try this radish for your butt! What could be better?!

🌱 Butt, seriously: everyone into the slow and homegrown food movements, look no further for your next butt plug! Rad-Ish features a firm and bulbous (rad-ish-y) head, and generous (leaf-y) flare to avoid getting planted too deeply in butts. This toy is handmade with love in the USA.

3) 🥕And this is one of the few carrots that we can enthusiastically stamp with the ‘stick it in your butt’ seal of approval. With lots of lovely bumpy carrot-y ridges, and a lush n’ leafy flared base, this handmade butt plug is sure to bring a smile to many lucky faces!

🌿Now go plant it!

Try the Baby Carrot for a smaller snack!

Build Better Relationships through Consent, Communication, and Expressing Your NeedsBoundaries are the ways we communica...
02/21/2024

Build Better Relationships through Consent, Communication, and Expressing Your Needs

Boundaries are the ways we communicate our needs. They are what allow us to feel safe among strangers, in everyday interactions, and in our closest relationships.

When we have healthy boundaries, we have a strong foundation in an uncertain world. And when someone crosses your boundaries, or you cross someone else’s, the results range from unsettling to catastrophic.

In this book, bestselling author Dr. Faith Harper offers a full understanding of issues of boundaries and consent, how we can communicate and listen more effectively, and how to survive and move on from situations where our boundaries are violated. Along the way, you’ll learn when and how to effectively say “no” (and “yes”), troubleshoot conflict, recognize abuse, and respect your own and others’ boundaries like a pro.

You’ll be amazed at how much these skills improve your relationships with friends, strangers, coworkers, and loved ones.

Unf**k your boundaries with the original book, the workbook and the conversation deck!

This thick and luxurious lubricant is a new exciting release from British Columbia’s premier family-run l**e business! 💧...
02/20/2024

This thick and luxurious lubricant is a new exciting release from British Columbia’s premier family-run l**e business!

💧Designed with a luxurious and thick consistency, Sutil Rich is perfect for use with s*x toys, a**l play, vaginal dryness or any other s*xy situations where a little extra thickness and cushioning would be appreciated!

🌱Made with lotus root, h***y goat w**d, and siberian ginseng, and packaged in a 100% biodegradable tube, there’s a lot of wholesome and mindful work that’s been put into this product!

“I don’t trust these hoes”- me referring to the government          😂
02/19/2024

“I don’t trust these hoes”

- me referring to the government

😂

Valentine’s Day is over but that doesn’t mean you can’t still send those who you admire a special something to tell them...
02/16/2024

Valentine’s Day is over but that doesn’t mean you can’t still send those who you admire a special something to tell them just how much you love them!

❤️ Share your love on any day with this “I’ve got a big le***an crush on you” card

🍑 or with a cheeky 😉 spin on “Roses are Red”

🥾and so many more adorably sweet and q***r cards from ***rcardco!

💕The Erotic Arts & Crafts Fair Is TOMORROW 💕 10AM-5PM, and WE’RE SO EXCITED!!!💗 Of course, we  will have a booth at the ...
02/09/2024

💕The Erotic Arts & Crafts Fair Is TOMORROW 💕 10AM-5PM
, and WE’RE SO EXCITED!!!

💗 Of course, we will have a booth at the too! Come visit us and see what goodies we have to share!

💕 While you’re there, sign up for our amazing newsletter to enter our raffle for a chance to win a Le Wand Swerve! Retail value of nearly 200.00!

💗 Hope you get a good night’s sleep people, cause tomorrow is going to be AMAZING!

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Toronto, ON
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Monday 12pm - 7pm
Tuesday 12pm - 7pm
Wednesday 12pm - 7pm
Thursday 12pm - 7pm
Friday 12pm - 7pm
Saturday 12pm - 7pm
Sunday 12pm - 6pm

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