03/11/2026
Let’s be honest, life can be a bit nuts.
I find kids’ parties stressful, noisy, awkward and smelly. 😆 Not always, but most of the time! Don’t get me wrong, it’s lovely being invited and seeing the kids have a great time, but sometimes it can feel like a right chore.
At this party, though, I stopped resisting it. I got involved, played some games, got a bit silly and had some fun. And it felt good!
It got me thinking about how much energy we spend wishing things were different. Psychologists call the ability to make room for life as it is psychological flexibility, and it’s linked with better wellbeing and resilience. Yoga philosophy has its own word for loosening our grip: aparigraha, or non-grasping.
That’s what I love about yoga. Slow, steady breathing can help the nervous system settle, and mindful movement helps us notice how we’re feeling before we react. It’s practice for moments off the mat, even the noisy, smelly ones! 💛
Sometimes the best thing we can do is let go and join in. 🎈