25/10/2026
Weekly Debrief
I’ve seen so many founders break themselves because they are comparing their position to others.
When you’re playing at a certain level, the comparison seems to be amplified.
On the outside, looking in everything seems to be going well:
You’re pushing yourself and your business, to the outside it seems that everything is good. On the internal landscape, I know exactly what it’s like to eat yourself alive and keep wondering, “Why hasn’t it worked yet?”
But what I’ve always questioned is:
What does that even mean?
Most of the time if you’d handed me successful people’s businesses, I’d hand it back because they don’t align to my values.
I don’t want to work 7 days a week, work every hour of day, or be absent from home not because I don’t have the capacity, because I don’t want to miss out on what matters most to me.
I’m building a business that allows me to connect with incredible people, have impact, work on my terms, stay aligned, and create projects that I know are going to change the leadership performance space
I’ve had an incredible time with the family this weekend, which really gave me perspective on where we are right now.
Yes I want more, yes I want to grow, and yes I want to be seen as evolving and pushing the boundaries at a faster pace and at a higher altitude. But the harsh reality is that the harder you push, the harder you have to come back down, which makes stacking continuous growth means staying focused on the boring parts of the game that need to be done.
Nearly 8 weeks left of the year, barring Christmas time.
Some are going to stick to the game plan and stack another week on top of the next, while others are going to sit in the void, watching someone else’s process wishing they were further ahead
Or there will be the founders and business leaders who’re cancelling out the noise and stacking wind they know will compound over.
Adventures with the family, hard training, solid food and even got to watch mates of mine play rugby again. Solid shooting and ready for another