11/03/2026
Have you ever had a feeling about something and been so certain you knew what it meant?
Someone's tone changes, and you sense they're upset with you. Someone becomes distant, and you feel that familiar fear of being abandoned. Or an opportunity comes along that you secretly want, but something inside tells you not to take the chance.
And you say, "I just have a feeling."
Not every feeling is our intuition guiding us.
What feels like intuition is an old wound recognizing something familiar. When we've spent years expecting rejection, we can become very good at noticing anything that resembles it. We've learned that trusting others leads to disappointment; we may interpret uncertainty as a warning. And when we've spent much of our lives trying to keep ourselves emotionally safe, fear can become so familiar that we mistake it for wisdom.
This doesn't mean we should ignore our feelings. They are telling us something about our inner experience. But they may not be telling us the whole story about what is happening around us.
This is where discernment becomes such a beautiful part of healing. We begin asking ourselves:
Is this something I know, or something I fear?
Am I responding to what is happening now, or remembering something that happened before?
Is there more to this situation than what I'm assuming?
When we become quiet enough to listen without immediately reacting, something begins to shift. We make room for another possibility.
For me, this is also where my relationship with God has become so meaningful. I've learned that I don't have to force an answer or figure everything out in that moment. I can become still. I can pray. I can listen. And I can allow myself the time to recognize what is coming from love and what may be coming from fear.
Confidence isn't believing that every feeling we have is the truth. It's trusting ourselves enough to question what we're feeling without dismissing it.
And sometimes, that willingness to question the story is the beginning of hearing something entirely different.