10/27/2026
Occasionally someone asks whether their problem is "big enough" to bring to me. So, plainly, who turns up in my practice:
People whose fight-or-flight response never switched off after something difficult, and who've been braced ever since. People who can't sleep, not for want of trying. People who are successful on paper and running on fumes underneath. People who feel nothing much at all and would rather feel something. People who've read the books, done the courses, understood themselves thoroughly, and still react the same way on Monday morning.
And a good number of people who simply can't relax — who haven't had a genuinely quiet mind in years and have started to assume that's just their personality.
It isn't a personality. It's a setting.
You don't need a dramatic story to qualify. "I'm tired of feeling like this" is a complete sentence.