10/31/2026
What are you scared of? 😱
No, really.
What, when you dig deep, is one of your greatest fears?
There are several traditions wrapped up in what we now call Halloween in the modern world...
From all saints day, to all hallows eve.
From Dias de las Mu***os (day of the dead), to the festival of Samhain on the celtic wheel of the year...
Each of these traditions center around the honoring and remembrance of those who've gone on before us.
When asked what I fear the most, I had to sort through many thoughts and familiar worries to find one common thread beneath them all.
Sure, extreme heights and crocodiles lurking in murky water made the list, but the thing that I placed at the very top was - when I'm old and gray, and in my final days - my greatest fear would be looking back at a life that I lived as anyone but my true and authentic self.
You see we all wear masks - not just on Halloween.
We've all shown up differently or made ourselves small in environments where taking up space didn't feel safe.
We've all been molded and shaped and told how (and who) to be our whole lives - and sometimes that results in losing ourselves.
Not fully, but certainly parts of us go dormant, suppressed, and left in the dark.
The artist in you might get burryed by the responsibilities of the CEO or manager who works so hard that they have nothing left at the end of the day.
The poet, the dancer, the rowdy teenager and the inner child are silenced by the hats that we wear and the desire for acceptance from others.
So what if we decided, on this day of remembrance, to not only call back the memories and spirits of our lost loved ones, but to also call back the lost pieces of ourselves?
What if, for even just this day, you invite your inner child to dance in the kitchen or sing along to a song in the grocery store? 💃
What if we invite the rebellious adolescent within to take the day off of chores - because omg - how LAME! 😜
What if I told you that every single piece of yourself is beautiful, worthy, and loved?
Even and especially the darkest, perhaps a bit spooky pieces... 👻
Today on this day of remembrance, we honor our angels and ancestors.
So too do we honor the lost pieces of ourselves. 🙏
Let your freak flag fly.
Take off the masks.
You are a gift that the world needs... every, single version and layer.
There's room for them all.
❤️