13/10/2026
Before I discovered Alexander Technique, I honestly didn't know what I was looking for, I just knew that something wasn't right.
I'd become increasingly worried about my future. I was carrying extra weight, I wasn't happy with my body image, and every attempt I made to get healthier seemed to make my back and shoulders hurt even more. So I did what I thought I was supposed to do. I went to the physio, then I started Pilates. Three mornings a week before work, group classes, private sessions... I poured a lot of time, energy and money into trying to fix the problem.
It helped a bit, but I always had this feeling that it wasn't really getting to the heart of it. I couldn't have told you what was missing, only that something was.
At the time I was incredibly busy, constantly moving from one thing to the next. I wasn't someone who spent much time reflecting on myself, and if I'm honest, I probably wasn't very good at listening to what my body was trying to tell me either.....Alexander Technique wasn't even on my radar.
I'm a practical person from a very science-minded family, so I'd always assumed it was one of those alternative therapies that probably wasn't for me.
Then my partner went to a music conference where there happened to be an Alexander Technique workshop.. When he came home he said, "I think there might actually be something in this."
That was enough to make me curious.
A few months later I was at a house concert where, instead of a support act, there was a guest speaker. It turned out to be the very same Alexander Technique teacher, Ann Shoebridge. I remember walking up to her afterwards and asking, "Is it only for musicians?"
She laughed and said no. So I booked a lesson and waited three months to get in. I recognised from that first session that this was addressing my fundamental issues.
I was hooked!
Looking back now, I realise the biggest thing I gained wasn't just less pain.
It was the experience of walking into a room where, for the first time in a long time, the space was entirely about me.
Just having someone help me notice how I was moving, how I was breathing, how I was relating to myself, and discovering that I didn't have to work so hard all the time.
It sounds so simple now, but I realised I'd completely lost touch with myself.
Learning to let the ground support me wasn't just a physical experience. It taught me something about self-compassion, about slowing down, and about giving myself permission to stop striving for a moment. None of that was what I thought I was signing up for, but it was exactly what I needed.
It's one of the reasons I love teaching today. So many people arrive thinking they're coming because of neck pain, sore backs or tension, and of course we work with those things. But often they leave with something much bigger.
They leave feeling more connected to themselves than they have in years. Sometimes the thing we're searching for isn't another exercise or another treatment, sometimes it's simply finding the space to hear ourselves again.
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