28/10/2026
When wounds run deep……
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Wounds run deep........
Everybody alive has their own unique wounds.
For some people.....life appears to unfaze them, bouncing back & overcoming adversity.
For some....it’s not that simple....
Life has dealt them a lot of adversity to overcome & battle.....
We have our primal survival mechanisms.
Fight...flight....frozen....faun
Do you survive by fighting for dear life, or come out swinging to protect the last pieces of you....to keep the real or perceived enemy from your sacred space?
Do you run & hide, ghost, detach, cut off....become invisible?
Are you so traumatized that you are frozen...stuck....shocked....grieving....held in a timeline or horror story?
Faun - you are as docile as a deer, people pleasing, enabling, door mat, fear of abandonment, sacrificing you or needing to belong at any cost?
You can have something happen....
To some it doesn’t even register, or it’s a little blip or speed bump.....they have done a lot of their own healing & inner work.
Then you have the I don’t care, I don’t understand, not my business people, ostriches...sticking their heads in the sand.........often because they have been fortunate to never experienced the same hell & journey.....can’t relate....recognize signs, or they lack empathy, compassion.....
Frozen mode makes many become desensitized, disassociated, trapped or detached from their own feelings & emotions.
Then to the other extreme of a trauma or abuse victim/survivor.....ptsd & mental health can be triggered.....a nothing to some....can trigger & bring the ghosts from hell straight back into reality.... it can traumatize them to the core of their being.
Some wounds or battle scars never show on the outside.....but can cripple, control, diminish the mental, spiritual & emotional bodies......
The magic.....the flip it moment.....
To ensure your primal earthly needs are being met.....
To be seen, to be heard/understood, to be safe/nurtured, to be loved......
You may think that’s not hard.... or shouldn’t be hard to do......but it is....
Because all that pain, trauma, dysfunction, separation, abandonment, abuse....it changes you......
Some need to talk, to share, to process, to let it out, to have someone actually see or recognize & acknowledge where they are coming from or at....to stop the spiral.
They need to know they aren’t all alone & misunderstood......
Others need time out, space, withdraw, rebalance.....
There is no right or wrong way ......
We are all different....
We all have needs.....
It’s ok to say....hey I’m doing it tough....
I need a friend
I need help
I need another perspective......
I just need some tender loving care....
I’m just wobbling & overwhelmed at present & need time out....
Haven’t we all been there?
But something that’s definitely the wrong & destructive thing to do to an abuse or trauma survivor....to ever belittle, diminish, punish, judge, or not try to learn how to support them along the road to recovery.
Because if you love someone....love will find a way....the medicine....the healing....the support....the togetherness....the strength to beat or face anything.
There’s a very big difference to stupid choices that need tough love... to a broken or shattering individual....
Professional help is often needed.....at crisis times......many are in crisis times now...
medical, counseling, psychology, healings, inner jouneying, self reflection.
A support network .....that is trusted, family, friends, your lover, partner, real, present.
To be able to reach out & talk to people not emotionally invested....to hold a space to purge & voice the raw pain & ugliness....
Because this can be really hard, gut wrenching & traumatic for all involved.....if you can’t reach nor help someone.
Do not ever make a vulnerable or sick person feel more ashamed ....if they finally gathered enough courage to open up, reach out, own their story, speak the unspeakable ......that’s cruel.....soul & hope destroying.
You have just invalidated or disrespected their feelings, emotions, story.....inflicting more trauma, pain & suffering.
There should be no shame about being real......
Together we rise, we find the strength, the way, the right place to be, the connections....
Then we leave that living hell behind......
We step into the present....
We begin to heal & plug back into life.
This scorpion energy is working its magic....
Everything that was emotionally buried has been brought to light.....
The good....bad.....ugly
Worlds will forge together or crumble now....
It will all be based on connection, compassion, consciousness, awareness.
Just like magnets.....there will be a mighty force of energy drawing your truth, medicine & perfect storm to you......
Or you will repel, disconnect, set boundaries, mortally wound & get sad endings.
Love .....so simple....yet so hard.....for many to give & receive.....
Something to ponder
Jenny
Energising Souls
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